I may have many skills in life but having a good sense of direction is definitely not one of them! My son, at
age 4, was already correcting and directing me when driving together. It means that, for someone like me, the GPS proves to be one of the greatest inventions of all time. It helps me to get where I'm going, and to arrive on time, without needless detours. When heading out the door on a business trip, especially somewhere I've never been, my family will ask if 'Hugh' is accompanying me. (yes... I have named my GPS Hugh, given that I have it on the Australian man's voice setting!)
When I'm just driving in familiar surroundings my GPS is all but useless to me. (sorry Hugh) It lets me know where I am, but I don't need to know that if I already know where I am. The only time that it proves its worth is when I've told it where I want to go and it helps me to get there. This is especially helpful when I've lost my way. If I know where I want to go, Hugh is there to help put me on the right path.
Life is not all that different. If we know where we are already then we have little need for assistance from anyone else. We are operating in the familiar and comfortable, in the 'known'. It is when we step off the beaten path though, and begin to venture out into the unknown that we could use some help in finding our way. However, we need one essential piece of information if others are going to truly be of assistance. We have to be able to tell them where we want to go.
The GPS in our car is all but useless if we do not let it know our destination. So too the receipt of any life advice. We need to, in essence, GPS our life. We need to take the time to determine our desired destination and then seek out the help and advice we need to get there. Without that clear understanding of where we want to end up, people's advice (well meaning though it may be) will often serve to steer us off course. Moving, perhaps, to a destination of their choosing, but not to our own.
Taking the time to set our Life GPS helps to ensure that the actions and steps that we take move us in our desired direction, and help to keep us on course. The only downfall with my Life GPS, unlike the one in my car of course, is that it doesn't sound like Hugh Jackman!