I have to admit that already the first chapter has given me pause to think. The topic? Desire. Not a word that we typically apply to our lives as a whole. We might stop to question what we 'want' in and from our lives, what we 'need' to get by and, perhaps, might even occasionally give voice to our dreams.
But, somehow, desire takes elements of all of these, incorporates them and elevates them. Desire is stronger than just want or need. It isn't as transient. Desire is not fleeting. It speaks to a consistency and commitment to thought and action belied by both want and need, which are more situationally based.
Additionally, our desires are more concrete than our dreams. Dreams, by their very nature, are less substantial, more corporeal, making them less tangible and therefore likely unattainable. Desire is more earthy though. It has a visceral component to it that provides an anchor for those dreams. It is more concrete, more substantial and, therefore, achievable.
It is the strength of our desire for a 'thing' that gives us the drive to achieve and succeed. However, admonitions to be 'practical', to be 'grounded', to be 'realistic and logical' in planning our lives and careers has led us to suppress our DESIRE, such that we are left doing, but not feeling.
It's hard to feel passionate about the work we do and the contributions we make when they lack any connection to our deepest desires. I am beginning to believe that it is the reconnection to our desires that is the catalyst for remarkable change to occur. Gaining clarity over our desires not only provides us with the destination, but it fuels the trip. Without it? We're likely to get caught up in doing and being and going something/somewhere less meaningful or fulfilling. We're living. We may even be 'successful' by other people's standards, but at what cost to us?
How much more excititng and energizing to be engaging in activities that feed and fulfill our desire, that move us toward our hidden, and all too often, unspoken dreams? If this stirs in you a spark of wanting, a 'desire' for more, then I invite you to begin to reconnect with your desires and passions.
Exercise: (I somehow always manage to work some kind of homework in, don't I?) You've spent years, perhaps even decades, in stifling and burying your desires. Don't expect them to reveal themselves to you overnight. Though... certainly be open to it should it happen that way for you!
- Consider - if there was enough money in whatever you chose to be or do...
- What would you be...
- What would you do...
- ... and... most importantly...why?
- Explore - how you felt as you answered the above questions. What does it reveal to you about your desires? Is there a way to begin integrating more of it into your life right now, no matter how small? If yes... then get started and do it!
Remember, no more effort is required to aim high in life, to demand abundance and prosperity, than is required to accept misery and povertyNapoleon Hill