- That new promotion?
- That new sport?
- That new art?
- That new hobby?
- That new volunteer experience?
- That new relationship?
New things can be fun, exhilarating and exciting but they can also be scary and intimidating. Often our move forward may be impeded by the thought that we don't know what to do, or perhaps how to do it.
- Antonio has a great idea for a new business he would love to start. Although excited about the concept he hesitates because he soon realizes that he doesn't know how to arrange for manufacturing, he isn't sure about financing options and definitely don't know how to set up online shopping and marketing systems. He decides not to pursue his idea because he determines that he doesn't know enough to start a business.
- Debra has been working in her current role for 4 years and has successes to spare. She has out performed all of her peers and finds that she knows her current job inside and out. In fact, she might even be willing to admit that she is feeling a little bored and under-challenged. A new opportunity has just been posted inside the company that others have said she would be great at. She's interested, but hesitates to apply because, as she reads over the job description, she realizes that there are aspects of the job that she has never done before.
All that is needed, in order to move forward is to believe in your ability to figure things out. Once you have faith in this, that everything is 'figure-outable', then the phrase 'I don't know' is no longer an end to your dream or growth, but a place to start.
- You don't know how to set up a new business, how to arrange for manufacturing, what it takes to get financing? Start searching and start asking. There are lots of people that have done what you are looking to do that would be more than happy to share some of their life lessons with you. There's entrepreneurial training, associations with support systems in place, business coaches, podcasts...
- You aren't sure if you have what it takes to be hired into a new role? Apply and find out. Don't second-guess it. The worst that can happen is that you find out what you are missing and then eliminate the gap. The best thing? You get the job!
If you wait to begin until you know everything you may need, then you will remain sitting on the couch. Just start, by believing in your ability to figure things out as you go.