We all hit obstacles and roadblocks that deter us. We experience setbacks and failures. Some of us give up in the face of these challenges, some of us don't.
Often the key difference between those who 'make it', and those that don't, is simply that successful people keep on keeping on. They see the hurdles and obstacles as simply something that needs to be overcome. They don't allow themselves to become overwhelmed and demoralized by the challenges, they don't listen to the critics, to the armchair quarterbacks that find it easier to sit back and share 'why' something won't work rather than jumping in and helping something to succeed. Instead, they keep their eye on the goal and find another way.
They learn from the lesson of failure, determining what didn't work and why, and fix it. Each setback creates a stronger and better defined path to the future they envision. It's not an easy journey. The path is littered with the detritus of those that have walked it before but abandoned the effort along the way. Those that didn't manage to stay the course are far too likely to help you abandon your efforts than they are to rally behind you and help keep you on your path. Having you abandon your dream helps vindicate their choice to abandon theirs. Don't let their loss of faith cause you to lose yours.
If everyone simply gave up when things got tough then we would not have electricity, we would never have walked on the moon, we would never have broken the four minute mile; there would be no Apple, no polio vaccine, no cars. The luxuries we enjoy today came not from people that only had a dream, but from those with the dream and the perseverance to see them through.
What path are you standing on? Is it the path leading to the fulfillment of your dream (you know the one!) or are you standing on some side path? The walking may be easier there but it is a path that never reaches your desired goal. It may veer close occasionally, giving you a glimpse of the dream once again, but if you don't push through all of the scrub brush and rubble separating you, and get back on the path to your dream, you will simply continue to walk the path you're on, demoralized by the reminder of the abandoned dream.
Perseverance is a powerful thing. It can help us to achieve great things in our lives. Success often comes not to those that are smarter or stronger but simply to those who keep at it a little bit longer, those that hang in and keep on trying.
Successful people are clear about what their dream is though. If your vision is to be a successful entrepreneur then you don't stick with a poor business concept and keep 'trying' to make that work. Learn from that mistake and choose a better vehicle. Many successful entrepreneurs that you speak with had many unsuccessful businesses first. We often learn best through trial and error, but we have to recognise and learn from the attempts. Are you learning from yours?
We all get knocked down by life. The only thing separating those at the top, from those at the bottom, is the climb. If you give up at any point during the climb you will not, can not, reach the summit. Those who succeed are those who simply kept moving forward, one small step at a time, knowing that doing nothing was not an option. Sometimes, the greatest secret to achievement and Success is to simply Keep on Keeping On.