For some though, the availability of information is misleading and can prove de-motivating. When we Google an idea or a concept we quickly see that there are 372,461 posts about that same idea. The count may even be in the millions, which instantly leads us to believe that our idea is not new, not novel and will not be of interest to anyone else. They already 'get it' elsewhere.
The internet can quickly serve as a means of comparing ourselves with others, proving to us that there is nothing 'new' to be done. Believing that it has all be done before can result in our never bothering to try. After all, why would someone hire us to do it for them (whatever 'it' may happen to be) when there are so many others that have clearly been doing it longer, can do it better, have established systems in place. With the help of the internet we can quickly find ourselves being sucked down the comparison rabbit-hole which tends to highlight for us why we shouldn't do something rather than why we should. Our comparisons create doubts and inertia, preventing our ideas and dreams from ever coming to light.
However, we need to broaden our perspective and recognise that every one of us has a blend and mix of unique gifts that no one else has. Your experiences, outlook and skills will appeal to some in ways that no one else's will. There are more than 7 billion people on this planet. It is impossible for those 372,461 folks you googled earlier to have reached them all. As long as you are offering something that people want and need there will always be a market for your gifts.
Despite the number of published authors out there, there is always room for more story tellers. Despite the number of talented singers out there, there is room for more voices and songs. Despite the number of great Italian or Thai restaurants out there, there is room for another to make a go of it.
Don't let someone else's success hold you back from seeking your own.
Everyone starts small. Every 'great' person began as you need to; with a kernel of skill, with limited experience, but with a lot of drive. The 'greats' got to where they are through practice and experience. They learned along the way. They didn't wait to be great to start. It doesn't make sense then to compare yourself to those that are at a different stage in their journey.
We may be skilled at something but hold ourselves back because we feel that there are others that are better. What we fail to see though is that there is room out there for us to offer our service too, because it will be different. Everything you do is imbued with you. Your 'you-ness' will have an impact on the service you provide simply because it is unique to you. Your 'you-ness' is not duplicatable. 'You' have never been done before which means that, regardless of what you're offering, no one has experienced exactly what it is you do. No one.
Singers can all sing the same song but deliver completely different experiences, because each song is imbued with 'them'. Some appeal to you more than others, while other audiences find others' renditions more appealing. That's why there is room for more than one singer in the world, more than one author, more than one artist and more than one of whatever you offer.
Whatever you offer has never been done before because it has not been done by you. You are unique and the world deserves to have you share those unique gifts. Only you can offer them 'you'.
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